Monthly Archives: March 2008

A March full of fetish fun

Club Sin March 2008

On Friday March 7th, Club Sin held it’s monthly “Fetish Friday” event featuring my dear friends Domina Jade and Master Tommi Gunn in performance, so I decided to attend along with both my submissives.

I was not up to spending a lot of time dressing up, so I had a bit of fun going for something different. I wore my hair pulled up in a tight bun and wore one of my black military berets, decorated with a beautiful golden dragon badge. I had on one of my black leather corsets, black dress pants and an amazing little dragon dogtag necklace that lights up with mesmerizing patterns — actually, I got a lot of comments on it that night!

It was nice to see some old friends, as many of them were also there to see Domina Jade and Master Tommi do their magic on stage. I still find the music waaaaay too loud for my tastes; as it always leaves my ears ringing! Never mind trying to hold an actual conversation with friends; you end up having to practically yell in each other’s ears — it’s really not very conducive to socializing at all. That’s one of the reasons I really rarely attend it anymore; I simply can’t stand the sound levels and I value my hearing more than most seem too. I pretty well only go there if one of my friends is performing in order to show them my moral support.

We did end up going to Picasso’s again for our usual after-event breakfast gathering — amazingly, this time we had a *huge* group of 16 people altogether! It was nice to be able to introduce new people to our little tradition — there’s nothing like being able to bond over a meal with both friends new and old.

On the 9th, my alpha submissive toriko and I had scheduled to go out that evening with our sweet dear friend Roxy, but she was really not feeling well — that combined with the fresh mountains of snow kept us in for the night…

On Saturday the 15th, I participated in workshop that went on from late afternoon until evening. Afterwards I was so exhausted I really did not feel like going out anywhere, so I stayed home with my pet toriko for the rest of the weekend. Actually, it was nice to have a relatively quiet time to ourselves, especially since he pampered me so nicely while I recuperated.

I continued to not feel too well during the rest of that week; so I purposely took it as easy as possible so as to not overstrain myself. My body is still not up to doing a lot of physical activity; if so, I usually end up paying the price for a few days afterwards.

This doesn’t stop me from attending kink events — if I didn’t go to any, I’d be bored out of my mind as well as missing my friends terribly, since I am such a social person. I just plan for the fact that after a heavy weekend I will usually be wiped out on Sunday and Monday, sometimes even up till Tuesday. A small price to pay for my sanity…

Updating my blog resources

mailing list

So, just a quick note to let my readers know that I have updated my “Montreal Kink Guide” to include a number of Montreal-area discussion and mailing lists. Some lists are quite busy and others are fairly quiet, but all have their niche in the community.

Mailing lists such as these are a great way to start off by getting the pulse of the local scene, find out about local events and even ask questions. Generally speaking, people are quite helpful, but as with any online resource you may also come across the occasional troll, so take everything with a grain of salt.

Hope these new resources might prove useful to some of you!

Review: Private Double Dungeon Party (Feb./Mar.)

melting candle

Maître Ex hosted another of his marvelous play parties at his private dungeon on the south shore of Montreal. This one was a double feature; being held on Friday the 29th of February and Saturday the 1st of March. It was unfortunate that my alpha sub toriko was not feeling well enough to attend, however my probationary sub “g” was there to attend to my needs.

The first night was a bit on the quiet side, due to the snowy weather being not particularly conducive to driving. Sir Marc, Maddog and Lady Evyl were both in attendance, so we did some socializing while sitting around the lovely wood burning stove — what a great atmosphere for catching up with kinky friends.

Lady Evyl had a chance to try one of my corsets — I recently sent it back to get a small repair done and the company sent me back a new one! However, I have lost a significant amount of weight since I first got it and I wasn’t really looking forward to spending months molding it to my figure again. Evyl looks magnificent in it as the length suits her taller frame much better. So we’ll probably make arrangements for her to take it off my hands, so that I can purchase a new leather corset in a smaller size.

If you’d like to see how good she looks in the corset; have a look at her CollarMe profile — there is a pic of her in a black leather corset with a bullwhip on her hip. That’s the pic I took of her when we were at the dungeon. I must admit that it is a particularly flattering shot!

Later on that night, I lent my favourite chrome flogger to Evyl so that Maddog could give her a few flogging pointers so that she could refine her techniques.

I, on the other hand, got to have fun doing a sensual hot wax scene with submissive “v”, an older and refined silver-haired gentleman of my acquaintance. Afterwards, he showed his gratitude by getting on his knees and giving me a very welcome and lengthy foot massage — he certainly does know how to do it well on me, gently stretching the tendons in a “that-hurts-so-good” kind of way and with some deep tissue massage on the heel of the foot.

After the evening’s fun at the dungeon, a bunch of our kinky friends joined us for our traditional breakfast at Picasso’s; a wonderful way to end a great night of BDSM and fetish fun.