The WishList


Definition: A “Tribute” is a gift, offering, donation or token that is freely given to a Domme, without any expectations of anything in return, often in appreciation and gratitude for the time She has or will spend with a submissive. Tributes and tokens can range in value from a service rendered, to gifts of little luxuries or more… Each Domme has her own favorites, hence the existence of Her “WishList”; to make it easier for a sub to choose an offering of something that She will enjoy.


Small Luxuries:

• Flowers are appreciated any time of the year; small live plants or bouquets delivered in person – spider mums (white, yellow, pink), mini or regular carnations, freesia, calla lilys, pink stargazer lilys, tulips, gardenias, pink or purple dendrobium orchids, short stem roses (white, peach or yellow), mixed bouquets or arrangements

• A David’s Tea gift certificate to David’s Tea in any amount is always appreciated.

• Twinings brand teabags – “Lady Grey” or “Irish Breakfast“, Peach Black Tea“.

Gonesh Incense Sticks no. 8 “Perfumes of a Spring Mist”, in a gold & blue package (can often be found at either Pier One Imports or even at a Walmart, near the card dept.)

Red Cat Eye special F/X contact lenses (standard issue – no prescription needed)


Gift Certificates from any of the following:

Sephora – Makeup and Skincare Boutiques online bookstore online bookstore

Penningtons Clothing Stores

• Wal-Mart (gift shopping card)

• Pre-paid fuel card from any major Canadian fuel retailer (Esso, PetroCanada, Shell, Ultramar, etc.)


For the more generous supplicants:

• Top-of-the-line and highly-reviewed Garmin Nüvi GPS device, with lifetime maps feature. (ex: model Nüvi 3597LM)

• Pewter or Silver Dragon chalices or goblets:
Cobalt Dragon Pewter Goblet (smooth version), from Fellowship Foundry
Crystal Dragon Pewter Goblet (smooth version), from Fellowship Foundry
Dragon Claw Pewter Goblet, from Fellowship Foundry

• Gift certificate for professional spa treatments (massage, spa day, etc.)

Apple iPad with Wifi in either 32GB, 64GB or 128GB models.


Fetish/BDSM Clothing & Toys:

• Credit note in any amount from Halfway Creations Leatherwork

• Butt plugs in either silicone, steel or glass. No “jelly” or latex models. (various sizes.)

• Leather chest & body harnesses, preferably adjustable (various sizes)

• Leather cuffs, padded & adjustable (feet & hands)

• Leather hoods (various styles)

• Nipple clamps & weights (various styles – japanese clover, c-clamp, screw, tweezer)

• Paddles, good quality leather & wooden styles


Thoughtful Gestures; require only time and effort:

An essay of 1000-2000 words (paying careful attention to grammar and spelling), on one of the following topics:

• How you discovered your submissive nature and what you have done to explore it.
• What previous experiences have you had in the BDSM world (online or real-time) and how have they affected you and your way of thinking
• How and why do you support the concept of Female Dominance and how can you put it into effect in everyday life?
• How do you define a submissive and a slave, and the differences between them? With which do you identify and why?
• “Safe, Sane & Consensual”; what it means within the BDSM community and to you personally


Philanthropic Gestures:
(Donations to any of the following organizations. Email a copy of your receipt)

• Any Womens’ Crisis Center or Shelter
• Native Womens Shelter of Montreal – (514-933-4688) (online donation, have an Honour Card sent to me to show your donation)
War Amps of Canada (tax deductible online donation, make your request for a receipt at the same time as your donation)
• Any major recognized non-denominational charity (such as Red Cross, Unicef, etc.)


An option for those who cannot make their offerings in person:



For the “Really Big Spender”:

One week all-expenses paid trip to OWK, in order that Mistress Jade may be eligible for Citizenship in the Other World Kingdom