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Montreal FetLife Munch and Play Party

Yesterday evening, there was a wonderful FetLife munch here in Montreal, organized by Ms. V. It was held at a restaurant in the middle of the Gay Village and turned out to be quite the affair with about 70 attendees!

It was great to see a lot of old friends — Sir Marc, Mz. Tina & Mr. O, Lady Evyl, Countess Alura, minimike, slave ricky, sub g, drakor, and of course, Ms. V and Master André. It was lovely to meet several new people in person as well — Agdistis, NaughtyTrix, deblouses and kinkygentleman, amongst others.

I only planned on putting on my black leather corset at the Loft, but ended up putting it on over my white blouse at the restaurant — much earlier than I expected. However, my back injury was starting to ache quite a bit, and that corset really *does* help support my back extremely well. I don’t think I would have made it through dinner without it.

There was also a play party being held at the Loft that night and a number of attendees from the munch came to the party as well. For several of them, it was there first time attending a munch or a play party and I’m sure it certainly opened their eyes.

slave ricky and sub g were sweet enough to arrange for a lift to the Loft’s front door and back again to my car afterwards, which was parked near the restaurant several blocks away. It certainly helped to make a big difference not having to walk all those blocks, or to have to drive around looking for parking in the rain.

I got to spend some time with my big-little leather brother Sir Marc, catching up on various topics of discussion. One of my former submissives, minimike was there and I ended up doing a light mummification & wax play scene with him. he was surprised and pleased to have been able to have a few new experiences to add to his repertoire.

I also got to watch a fucking machine in action; it’s made by a local Montreal kinkster who has been spending quite a few years developing them. They are quite the machines, with a huge range of motions, speeds and pre-sets. The company is called Hugher Technology, in case you’d like to check them out…

It was really a wonderful event and I am looking forward to any more local FetLife events that are organized…

Review: May 2nd Club Sin Fetish Friday

Club Sin May 2008
On Friday, May 2nd, Club Sin was celebrating it’s 50th consecutive “Fetish Friday” event at Club Cleopatra’s here in Montreal. Quite an accomplishment as fetish events go here in the city.

Earlier in the week, I had arranged for my submissive “g” to pick up a few of the free tickets that had been offered by Club Sin via some of the kink-related shops in town. He was ordered to show up ahead of time and reserve us a good seating area, since I was also expecting a few of my other friends to show up and wanted to be able to sit together with them.

My alpha submissive toriko helped me to prepare for the night’s outing; laying out my choice of clothing for the event. I decided to have a bit of fun and dressed as a “Pirate Slaver Queen”, complete with a black leather corset with lots of silver spikes and buckles, a white low-cut lace-up pirate blouse that displayed my cleavage nicely, along with my trusty chrome handled flogger over one shoulder and an 8 foot long leather bullwhip coiled and slung over the other. It was all topped off by a superb dark leather tricorne hat that I picked up last fall. All in all, a quite striking and unusual outfit which garnered a number of compliments that night.

We had originally hoped to bring our good friend, the lovely Lady Roxy with us, but at the last minute she was simply too tired, especially since she had to get up early to work the next morning; so we made arrangements to catch up again later. I miss her warm smile and sweet soul a lot…

My lucky blessings from the all-powerful urban Parking Gods continued to hold well; a car pulled out of a spot about three doors away from the Club Cleo‘s entrance just as I drove up. The chances of that are extraordinary; especially on a busy Friday night in downtown Montreal!

I had toriko call “g” on his cellphone to let him know to come downstairs and give us our tickets. It was at that time that we discovered something that was rather upsetting. Apparently, the organizer had decided at the last minute NOT to honour the free tickets that had been issued and distributed, and instead to charge people at the door. I was *seriously* NOT impressed — those kinds of actions are the type of thing that can ruin an event’s reputation in short order, despite years of good publicity.

Anyways, I guess an awful lot of other people bitched and complained about the situation as well — because when we finally arrived to the ticket-taker; she explained that the promoter had backed down and that it would be free after all. Still, what a fiasco; especially since it was so unexpected — we’ll have to see how it affects Club Sin’s general reputation in the long run. As it is, I’m not sure I’ll bother going again unless I’m supporting a friend who is performing and has put me on their guest list; at least that way I can be sure, hmmm, or can I? :sighs and rolls eyes:

It was around 11:30pm by the time we got in and the club was already quite packed. was nice to see so many familiar faces including: Lord Peter (whom I hadn’t seen since New Year’s Eve), Sir Marc, Mistress Zyra & Malcolm, slave ricky and many more… My pretty boytoy toriko found and brought over our young lady friend of recent acquaintance; I have bestowed upon her the pet nickname of Tatsu (because she was born in a Year of the Dragon, just like myself). She was wearing a pretty new dark blue and black brocade custom corset that looked absolutely gorgeous on her, especially with her matching hair falls.

The seating that my submissive “g” had reserved for us was in the upper level and consisted of a rounded comfy rounded couch area at one end of the small play zone. It was a good spot, as it kept us from being crowded and banged into by the milling crowds. It was unfortunate that throughout the evening, despite having clothing, purses and toybags on our seats whenever someone stepped away to get a drink, have a dance or even use the washroom — that some of the more clueless or drunken males would try to plunk themselves down, hoping to get a good spot to watch some of the nearby play action or during the stage presentations. However, between myself and my boys; we managed to keep our reserved zone to ourselves. Hey, if they want a good spot, get here early or have someone else hold them a good seat; but don’t go stealing other people’s seats! Jeez, how rude!

Shortly after midnight, there was a video presentation to honour the birthday of a local fetish community member known as “The Richard”. Totally didn’t get to see any of it; since too many people came up to our upper level and plunked themselves in front of our seating area. So much for the good sight-line! When it came to the follow-up fashion show by Creation SIS, us smaller ladies actually had to stand up on the couch in order to be able to see above the crowd. What I did see was not too bad; however I would have preferred more fashion (ie: more outfits and shown more clearly) and less of the lengthy onstage fondling. I’m sure that part of that is due to a limited working budget of course.

After the show, we were joined by several friends, including Ambrosia Demise  who came over and we had as nice a chat as we could, considering the loud music… speaking of which….

One of the reasons that I rarely attend Club Sin anymore is because the music is simply too *fucking* loud! I actually had to have my boys dig out the “emergency” ear plugs out of the toy bag. Unfortunately there were only two sets; so toriko and I made use of them as we were both getting headaches and our ears were ringing. Even with the ear plugs, I found it loud and difficult to carry a conversation for any length of time. I know an awful lot of other people in the community feel the same way and won’t attend Fetish Fridays anymore for the same reason — they value their hearing.

One of the redeeming features of the night was catching sight of one of my occasional play parters, submissive “v” — I asked him if he was available and we proceeded to enjoy a relatively subdued play scene, because the environment was not the best for anything more intense or involved. I had toriko reserve the play area with the chains hanging from the ceiling (there was only one other play area besides that).

I had a good flogging session with submissive “v” and then had my other boys prepare my candles and some ice for some sensual hot wax play. I love to play with two candles in one hand; it doubles the drip rate of the wax — I’ve also been told many times that it does look rather spectacular from an observer’s viewpoint. Afterwards, I “shaved” the wax of his back with a shiny but safe-edged knife.

We followed up with some much-needed aftercare (for Me!) by having “v” giving me one of his intense foot massages, “g” being my “drink boy” holding my silver tray and drinking goblet nearby and slowly fanning myself with my chinese fan while toriko saw to the toys being stowed safely away. I had a good chuckle when someone mentioned how everytime they saw me, I always had so many submissives around me catering to my needs… I looked around at all “my boys” and realized that she was right — damn I’m a wonderfully spoiled Lady at times! I do love my life as a Domme!

At the end of the evening, as people were going around saying their farewells, I was joined by the sexy skin-tight catsuit-wearing Maîtresse Malycia; it was so good to see her again. She, along with Sir Marc, decided to join the boys and myself for our usual breakfast tradition; however this time we ventured to a quaint little 24hr café in the Gay Village, since we haven’t been particularly pleased with Picasso’s as of late.

As we drove there, it was quite interesting to observe the wonderful variety of people pouring forth onto the streets of Ste. Catherine as the bars and clubs closed. Montreal is such an amazing city; I love the diversity and perversity of it all!

Breakfast was much needed by all by that time; it had been such a long time since any of us had anything to eat. We got a chance to catch up and discuss a variety of topics, and best of all, without having to shout at each other! 😉 The sun was slowly rising as we left the café shortly after 6am and drove Maîtresse Malycia home; then toriko and I headed back to the West Island for some much-needed sleep.

Private Play Party at Maitre Ex’s dungeon

For the past while, Maitre Ex has been hosting private play parties at his excellent dungeon on the South Shore. They are usually double-night affairs, for both the Friday and Saturday nights and usually winds up in the wee hours of the morning.

The Friday play party ended up being on the small side; which was not bad at all because it allowed me to do some much needed socializing with my kinky friends and leather family.

Saturday’s was much more busy with quite an assortment of guests; some older familiar faces and a number of new ones. It was a shame that a few people I was hoping to see were not able to make it…

We arrived around 11:30pm (myself, my two submissives toriko & g, and my occasional painslut JF). It was nice to see several friendly faces were already there, so I “made the rounds” to greet them all.

I ended my evening with an hour and a half heavy play session with my painslut JF; comprised mainly of flogging with a variety of implements (including my favourite chrome flogger), some very intense hot wax play, alternated with ice play, then more flogging and finally sensuously scraping the wax off with a blade. The both of us were “flying” after that and feeling extremely mellow after it was all done…

All in all, a wonderful weekend of kinky fun!

Review: Private Double Dungeon Party (Feb./Mar.)

melting candle

Maître Ex hosted another of his marvelous play parties at his private dungeon on the south shore of Montreal. This one was a double feature; being held on Friday the 29th of February and Saturday the 1st of March. It was unfortunate that my alpha sub toriko was not feeling well enough to attend, however my probationary sub “g” was there to attend to my needs.

The first night was a bit on the quiet side, due to the snowy weather being not particularly conducive to driving. Sir Marc, Maddog and Lady Evyl were both in attendance, so we did some socializing while sitting around the lovely wood burning stove — what a great atmosphere for catching up with kinky friends.

Lady Evyl had a chance to try one of my corsets — I recently sent it back to get a small repair done and the company sent me back a new one! However, I have lost a significant amount of weight since I first got it and I wasn’t really looking forward to spending months molding it to my figure again. Evyl looks magnificent in it as the length suits her taller frame much better. So we’ll probably make arrangements for her to take it off my hands, so that I can purchase a new leather corset in a smaller size.

If you’d like to see how good she looks in the corset; have a look at her CollarMe profile — there is a pic of her in a black leather corset with a bullwhip on her hip. That’s the pic I took of her when we were at the dungeon. I must admit that it is a particularly flattering shot!

Later on that night, I lent my favourite chrome flogger to Evyl so that Maddog could give her a few flogging pointers so that she could refine her techniques.

I, on the other hand, got to have fun doing a sensual hot wax scene with submissive “v”, an older and refined silver-haired gentleman of my acquaintance. Afterwards, he showed his gratitude by getting on his knees and giving me a very welcome and lengthy foot massage — he certainly does know how to do it well on me, gently stretching the tendons in a “that-hurts-so-good” kind of way and with some deep tissue massage on the heel of the foot.

After the evening’s fun at the dungeon, a bunch of our kinky friends joined us for our traditional breakfast at Picasso’s; a wonderful way to end a great night of BDSM and fetish fun.

Catching up with my kinky life…

Strap-on Gangbang

It’s been really frustrating that my health has continued to give me problems since the beginning of September, shortly after the Fetish Weekend. There is *so* much that I want to do or get done and it just seems that I am either not feeling well enough, exhausted, or in the process of recuperating…

As a result, I’m currently backlogged on my kinky correspondence via email as well as through the many online sites where I maintain a presence. I also need to re-schedule several interviews from late summer with prospective submissives for my stable. A few of them seem to have some potential, so I am looking forward to seeing how well they “pan out” in person…

I was asked if I could organize a very private “strap-on gang-bang” for some of my FemDomme friends with a handsome blond male submissive from out-of-town. Unfortunately, the way I’ve been feeling, I haven’t even had the time to look into preliminary logistics for this one… and trust me, I *really* want this particular event to get off the ground!!

I have been trying to take good care of myself and to save my energy so that I don’t over-extend myself. My boy toriko has been making sure that I continue to eat well; as my appetite has not always been the best; he also encourages me to get enough rest, because my sleep cycle has been screwed up as of late.

I have had occasional days where I have felt slightly better; so I’ve been trying to take advantage of them in small ways. I caught up on a few movies that I had wanted to see at the Dollar Cinema — some flicks are still best seen on the big screen, even if I plan to pick up the DVD when it comes out.

I was also feeling well enough last weekend to attend a small local fannish event. It was really great to connect with many of my out-of-town friends, whom I had not seen in years! Strangely enough, one of the most surprising connections was with my godchild, whom I have not seen in person since he was around 5-6 years old. His sweetheart of a mother had made arrangements for him to make a surprise visit to see me on Saturday — that totally blew me away as I had really not expected it. The whole experience brought back such intense memories from another time in my life — luckily, they were associated with some of the best parts of those memories and we were able to share some great stories over dinner.

Because my godson is very interested in various body modifications; the discussions eventually went into the direction of fetish & kink… (gee, what a surprise, hmmm?) One thing led to another and he and his lovely lady friend are planning on attending their first kinky event with me this weekend — Isabeau & Seb’s “Passion Fetish Ball” which takes place on Saturday October 20th. I’ve really been looking forward to it, as Isa & Seb manage to organize events that really bring together the various segments of the local kink community — from BDSM players and observers, latex & leather fetishists, goths, techo dance fans, as well as the leather, gay and lesbian members. All in all, I think it will be a great introduction for them into the local community and I’m sure they will enjoy it.

I still haven’t decided which of my three leather corsets I will wear to the event… My red one is definitely my favourite one and is quite comfortable as corsets go. However, I recently purchased some beautiful black leather arm bracers that have large O-rings and straps on them that match one of my black leather corsets, so it’s hard to decide.

I plan on attending with my pretty boy-toy toriko, as well as my part-time pain-slut “J”. The last time I played with “J” a few months ago; we both enjoyed a hard-core flogging session with my favourite chrome-handled heavy red leather flogger, followed by a double-candle wax session and then of course I proceeded to flog all the wax off his back! I’ll have to see what I feel like doing to him this time… *weg*

Last Wild Weekend in April

Dungeon FemDomme

On Saturday, my pet and I received an invitation to a private play party on the south shore, off the island of Montreal. It was being held in a large commercial industrial space and had lots of very cool dungeon furniture and play equipment.

There was a kinky auction, however we arrived at around 10:30pm which was too late to participate in it; which was fine by me because I did not feel like rushing myself that evening. My submissive houseboy had laid out my new red leather corset for me, and I chose a new black skirt with a draped and very swingy hemline along with my fishnet stockings. I also wore my hair out of the way in my traditional long braid down my back. It was a bit cool and rainy that night, so I also chose my floor-length hooded cape with mink trim down the front. My submissive toriko wore his new slim leather pants and a sheer black net shirt along with his black collar and my ownership tag.

As soon as we arrived, I recognized “A”, a very old friend of mine (pre-dating my kink days), who was there in his capacity as fetish photographer. We greeted each other and hugged and then he was kind enough to point out a few helpful things regarding the dungeon to me. (Later on in the night, he took a very nice portrait of my pet and myself – one of the best I’ve had so far.)

The dungeon playspace was large and quite active; with approximately 100 people in attendance. There was an interesting mix of anglophones, francophones and of course, many bilingual folk. I recognized a few familiar faces and began making the rounds, greeting them along my way.

I stopped to say hello to Master André and Lady Vivian; they mentioned that it was their first time attending this particular playspace as well. It had been submissive milou’s birthday the day before, so he was set up on the spanking bench, so that attendees could share in his birthday spanks. I gave him a good hard 20 spanks, with a gentle teasing with my long nails, in between strokes – which he seemed to greatly enjoy.

Participants had been encouraged to bring their own seating, so I brought my special folding double seat, with it’s own small table surface in between the chairs. As my houseboy was setting it up, a cute gray cat wandered by to check us out — apparently it lives in the dungeon and it was totally at ease with the multitude of people and was not scared at all. It was so adorable to see it wander around during the entire night, as it stopped by to greet newcomers and get petted by everyone.

I choose a place near one of the whipping stations for my little “throne”, with a very good view of almost all the activities. I was able to enjoy watching some good flogging of a pretty young girl as she was strung up on a nearby playstation.

Lady Vivian was overseeing some electrical play on a male submissive who was spread over a large and comfortable kneeling bench. He was holding a wand and observers were encouraged to participate by gently stroking or touching his back and to watch and feel the sparks. I tried it for a bit and found the sensation interesting, if a bit strong for my own tastes, so I retired back to my seating area to continue my observations of the dungeon’s activities. My submissive toriko was fascinated by the electrical play, so I let him stay and continue to play, since he was only a short distance away.

I was quite pleased that I got to practice more of my French in order to improve my fluency. I don’t always have many chances to use it daily, so I find it has gotten a bit rusty and I find myself hesitating trying to find the perfect words with which to express myself. Luckily, some of the people that I ended up chatting with were very patient when I explained this to them. Most of them even said that my French is very good, and I just need to feel more comfortable with it.

I got to spend some time chatting with an older francophone gentleman submissive named “a”, with whom I’ve crossed paths many times before at other local events. It was nice to finally get to know him better.

I was also approached by a cute young blond submissive boy; at first I thought that he must be a teenager because he looked so young, but apparently he is 23 years old. He introduced himself politely, as he wished to practice his English, as he is studying to be a second language teacher.

Later on, I decided to have my feet massaged and called upon both my own submissive toriko, as well as the young blond sub. They sat closely together on the ledge of a nearby whipping post and they looked adorable side-by-side, with their dark and blond heads huddled together in quiet discussion while they worked on my tiny feet.

A lovely FemDomme (Lady L) that I had noticed before was looking for a place to rest, so I invited her to join me on my double seat, and we chatted in French for a while. At my pet’s suggestion, I offered the use of my boys to massage her feet as well. Since she had been wearing very tall heels; she quickly accepted, if somewhat surprised by my offer.

I quickly kicked a small nearby footstool into place and the two submissives quickly tucked their little butts on it side-by-side once again, to begin massaging her tired feet. She looked so relieved and relaxed by the whole thing that I decided to stand behind the boys and oversee their foot massage. I ordered them to start worshipping her stockinged feet; to gently kiss each toe as they continued their massage.

Lady L seemed to be in total bliss and I can understand why; my houseboy toriko was gently breathing his hot breath sensuously over each of her toes, alternating with soft kisses and gentle strokes of his hands. He has wonderful hands with a very soothing touch, so I know first-hand how wonderful she must be feeling. In fact, two or three times some of her friends approached her, to remind her that they needed to leave soon as they had a long drive, and she kept pleading for just a few minutes more!

I finally got a chance to talk with sub “r”, whom had caught my eye quite some time ago, but he was untouchable because he belonged to someone else. Recently, his former Mistress has returned to her vanilla life and had decided that she no longer needed him. Of course, the poor boy has been having a hard time sorting out all his feelings about the situation.

I found that “r” is quite fun to tease; he is only a few inches taller than me and has wonderful dark brown eyes that remind me of chocolate. He is used to eye contact restrictions, so it was very difficult for him to look me in the eye — until I told him that is how I prefer to talk to people and that if I wanted him to look down I would tell him so… It was so fun seeing his eyes dart about like a nervous little deer.

At one point, I was talking to him and cornered him up against this giant slanted rope web that runs from the floor to the ceiling; I felt like a spider and her prey! My houseboy toriko came up close behind me while I was talking to “r” and as I pulled him even closer, and I was soon in the middle of a delicious “sub” sandwich! I think I might have made some of the other Ladies a tiny bit jealous, as one of them even approached me shortly after and jokingly said “How did you manage to him (meaning sub “r”) to do that? I’ve been after him for a while!

At the end of the night, after most people had left, someone brought out a dildo attachment for a reciprocating saw that can apparently go at 2500 rpm. One submissive woman (I don’t know if she was brave or stupid), decides that she wanted to try it out. Although using it at much slower speeds, she was still screaming like a banshee and drenching both the tool holder and the one holding her down. Then hot wax was poured over her ample breasts while she was being penetrated by the ramming tool. There were about 20 of us who were gathered around watching all of this rather wide-eyed, as it was quite a sight!

Finally the time came to bid our adieus for the night and to go around and exchange hugs and the traditional Montreal “two-cheek kiss”. I really enjoyed myself as I got to catch up with both old friends and make several new ones.

One of my submissive houseboy’s female friends was stranded waiting for a ride so I decided that we would drive her back home safely; as I wouldn’t want to have her stuck off-island in the wee hours of the morning without a ride.

It was around 4:30 am by the time we dropped her off and I was feeling quite peckish; so I decided that we would go and get breakfast at Picassos on the way home. It was not quite the same without my usual gang of Club Fetish friends, but it was still a great way to round off the night’s fun! I finally arrived home shortly after sunrise at 6 am.

Another kinky weekend is shaping up for Mistress Jade!

Jade’s flogger

Ooooooooooh, I am so pleased — this weekend looks to be shaping up to be another fun and kinky one!

I am planning on attending the fetish play party at Club L’Eclipse sponsored by Il Bolero. Never been to it before so I thought I would check it out for myself. My Domme friend AugustJoy will be coming as well as my male sub jon.

Saturday night looks to be a big one at Le Chateau. So far, here’s who is attending, other than myself:
– My Dom partner, Master Michael
– my male sub, jon
– Lady Katana (tentative)
– Lady AugustJoy
– Lady AugustJoy’s 2 friends

and from the ALT community:
– Domina Jade
– Masterstouch51
– Softskin4
– intrepid_fad

So we are looking at around 11 people! Wow, that will be a great crowd…

I mentioned in my ALT “BDSM & Fetish Montreal” group that I was looking to practice some of my wax play techniques and Masterstouch51 has graciously offered the use of his body. It should be interesting having someone else upon which to drip my candles!

Also, Lady AugustJoy and I were planning on doing a double Domme tag-team on my playsub jon, who is definitely looking forward to it, after the last play session we had with him.

On Sunday, I have my monthly munch to attend, so that will be a nice way to wind down the weekend with other kinky friends.

So, how do you spend your weekends? Do you ever get to go out to kinky events? Are there many clubs or events in your city or area? Are you much of a social person or do you tend to keep to yourself and private scenes? I’d be interested in finding out what others do…

~ Mistress Jade Dragon