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Kinky Sex Is The New Norm in Quebec?

Today the local Montreal Gazette posted an article discussing the growing kinkiness of Quebecers.

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While our province has always been known for its linguistic tensions, the study by researchers Christian Joyal and Julie Carpentier shows that we may soon become known for something much more erotic: our rather risqué sexual proclivities.

Handcuffs, blindfolds, spanking — Joyal said there is significant interest among Quebecers in engaging in those types of sexual activities. People aren’t just fantasizing about it, he added; they wish to do it.

Nearly half of the 1,040 Quebecers surveyed (45.6 per cent) have an interest in at least one type of sexual behaviour considered anomalous, like voyeurism, fetishism and masochism. One third of them had experienced the behaviour at least once.

Click here to read the full article:
http://montrealgazette.com/news/local-news/kinky-sex-may-be-the-new-normal-in-quebec-study-suggests

Thought-provoking gender-swapped version of “Blurred Lines” music video

There’s been a lot of controversy over the misogynistic video of “Blurred Lines” by Robin Thicke. It has been blasted by critics as being disparaging to women.

Luckily for us, an awesome parody has been created by Mod Carousel, a Seattle-based Boylesque troup, and features new tweaked lyrics, new male models and new props.

Mod Carousel addresses some of its own concerns with the original “Blurred Lines” video:

“It’s our opinion that most attempts to show female objectification in the media by swapping the genders serve more to ridicule the male body than to highlight the extent to which women get objectified and does everyone a disservice,” the group explains. “We made this video specifically to show a spectrum of sexuality as well as present both women and men in a positive light, one where objectifying men is more than alright and where women can be strong and sexy without negative repercussions.”

Here is the original unrated version of “Blurred Lines”, for comparison:

Article: BDSM Kinksters Healthier Than Vanilla People

Although the concept is something that us kinksters seem to have been aware of for some time; a recent study seems to have opened up the eyes of the scientific community.

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“Despite the fact that their sexual preferences are listed in the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders as potentially problematic, people who play with whips and chains in the bedroom may actually be more psychologically healthy than those who don’t.”

“A new study finds that practitioners of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism, or BDSM, score better on a variety of personality and psychological measures than “vanilla” people who don’t engage in unusual sex acts. A new study, published May 16 in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, finds that, in fact, BDSM practitioners may be better off psychologically than the general public.”

Read the full article: 
http://www.livescience.com/34832-bdsm-healthy-psychology.html

Letting sleeping houseboys lie…

During the past few months, whenever my houseboy toriko stayed overnight, I have allowed him sleep on our new comfy leather couch. However, apparently my pretty boy hasn’t been sleeping well because his back requires a much firmer surface.

About three weeks ago, toriko stayed up very late one night setting up the air conditioner in my bedroom for me. Since it was really a very hot and muggy night, I allowed my pretty houseboy the privilege of sleeping nude on the floor at the foot of my bed so that he could also stay cool and comfortable.

Although toriko stated that he had absolutely no problem with sleeping on the bare hardwood floor; being a creature of comfort myself, I could not imagine that could be very restful since he needed to be at work extremely early the next day. So I ordered him to roll out a thin mattress pad from my storage room for him to use instead of the bare floor.

This worked out quite well – as my boy was not far away when I had a coughing fit in the wee hours of the morning and he promptly fetched me my glass of ice tea and a cough drop, so that I was able to fall back asleep fairly quickly.

I’ve been so pleased with this set-up, that as a result I’ve been allowing toriko to continue with this special privilege whenever he stays overnight. I have him at my instant beck and call should I require him, and my lucky pet is extremely happy with his sleeping mat on the floor.

I find that I rather like the thought of having my beautiful dark-haired boytoy sleeping naked at the foot of my bed. Besides, he looks so cute, peaceful and innocent when he is sleeping — it just inspires me to want to do wicked and nasty things to him all the more… hehe!