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Article – Bondage Lovers Lead Happier Lives

Found an article today that might be of interest to my blog readers…

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An unusual sex survey has found that Australians who enjoy bondage and discipline are not damaged or dangerous, and might even be happier than those who practise “normal” sex.

The research showed two per cent of adult Australians regularly partake in sadomasochism and dominance and submission-type sexual role play.

And contrary to commonly-held stereotypes, they are not doing so in reaction to sexual abuse or because they are “sexually deficient” in some way, according the study of 20,000 Australians by public health researchers at the University of NSW.

Check out the rest of the article here and come back to post your comments; I’d be interested to read your opinion on it.

Article – BDSM Lifestyles: A World of Sensual Etiquette and Restraint

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This morning, I found a rather interesting newspaper article about BDSM — interesting because it portrayed it in a rather positive light for a change. Here’s an excerpt:

The high regard for decorum coupled with sexual exploration puts one in mind of a time where words like honour meant something and passion could be unbridled and furious. I will admit that the more romantic aspects of this lifestyle lured me in, and I had occasion to meet many wonderful people therein, although I didn’t indulge in play myself. I am not sure if timidity or a fear or realizing some of my fantasies was the culprit for my hesitancy. After all, BDSM is about power exchange, and I think I like to be in control far too much…didn’t mean it wasn’t alluring.

I suppose this was in part to the fact that human beings often tend to crave and desire the very things we cannot have, which is a part of the fascination. This idea is a key component of bondage and domination lifestyles as well, as this dynamic can create a powerful rush of emotion and arousal.

Why not drop by and read the rest of the article and let me know what you thought of it as well?

BDSM Lifestyles: A World of Sensual Etiquette and Restraint